Memo

You must be aware of the loop.

May 28, 2025 · Read on Substack
You must be aware of the loop.

To break a cycle, you must first be aware of the loop…its rhythm, its trigger, its cost. Cycles are sneaky. They feel like habits, like comfort, like personality. But they’re often prisons dressed as patterns. If you’re not careful, you begin to normalize the very thing that’s breaking you.

So the first act of rebellion is awareness. To name the loop. To see it for what it is.

And then comes the battle…because cycles don’t break gently. They fight back. They pull you into old responses with new faces. The dragon is not just outside you, it’s the voice that whispers, “Nothing will change.” But you must be ready. To outgrow the familiar. To disappoint the expectations built by your past self. To choose differently when everything in you craves the same.

That is how you slay the cycle. Not in a single strike, but in every moment you choose not to repeat what once felt like home.

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