Memo

You Are Being Searched For

April 19, 2024 · Read on Substack
You Are Being Searched For

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So, I’ve been on this major kick lately. I walk, like, a ton. Sunrise, sunset, doesn’t matter. All this walking has basically turned me into a professional cloud chaser these days. It’s caused me to move slowly, I’m always looking up, and it’s a really, really good day if the clouds are extra pretty. I guess it’s my thing now, and it brings me so much joy. The thing is, I was searching for music that matched this whole vibe, you know? Something that captured that feeling of just wandering and soaking in the beauty of the sky.

And then one day, on one of my walks, Spotify did its thing with the Smart Shuffle, and I stumbled upon Novo Amor.

The first song, and I swear, my heart just lit up. It was exactly what I’d been searching for, the perfect soundtrack to my cloud-watching adventures. And that’s when it hit me: It made me realize something much bigger – your dreams are dreaming of you too.

Every day you have people walking around discontented, yearning, dreaming and desiring for something that speaks to their identity. We are all audiences and at the same time, we are all creators. We are simply…people who are opening ourselves up to consume and to receive the gifts of other people, which means that we are dreaming of the kind of things that speak to us.

Think about it. Have you ever stumbled upon something that feels like it was made just for you? That feeling of finding something or someone that just clicks with your soul! I could not stop thinking about it…that feeling where you say “Where have you been all my life?”. A friend that just feels like an amazing person and a bit weird like you, a job that you fit right into, a client that just “gets you”, a book, or a movie that changes your outlook on life.


It’s the same for anything you desire, really. Maybe you’re dreaming of love, for that passion project to be a success, for the product you are creating to sell numbers, that perfect person who gets you. Or maybe you’re a bit quirky and want to find your tribe, your people. Here’s the thing: they’re out there, searching for you too! Think about it. We often view our dreams, big and small, as things we chase after. But what if they’re chasing us too?

It’s the perfect match…two distinct things, yearning for one another so badly that their paths have to cross. In those moments, it feels like the universe itself is conspiring to bring you joy personally.

I’ve read books, bought and tried things, met people, and listened to music and thought…” Meh”. It did not speak to me, you know. It’s when something is EXACTLY what I have yearned for and wanted, even when I do not know what it is yet…A wish I never made, I strongly believe that our soul knows what we want and even when we do not ask for it, on the other side, there is the other thing, hoping that its gift, its being, finds you because it’s seeking you too, to receive that essence.

So, if you dream of writing, there is someone who dreams of reading you. If you dream of launching that product, some people dream of using that type of product. If you dream of teaching, some students dream of being taught by you. If you dream of singing, there’s someone who dreams of listening to you. If you dream of being seen, some people dream of seeing and being seen through you. If you dream of a specific type of love, there is someone who dreams of giving that specific type of love to someone.

This doesn’t mean everything will be handed to you on a silver platter. The joy lies in the exploration, the thrill of discovery. It’s about tuning into the frequency of your desires and letting them guide you.

The universe works in mysterious ways, but this much feels true: we put out a certain energy, a frequency of our desires, and the world responds. In living your purpose, you therefore create a space for someone else to live theirs. To get what they too have been dreaming of. So the question you should ask yourself is if you become your fullest expression… if you honour this dream, who might be dreaming you back?


People are out there, right now, dreaming of the thing only you can give them. So if you become your fullest expansion, who will expand through you?

Rather than bowing to pressure to conform. I want you to just…BE. Ask yourself, am I meant to be doing this? Do I feel called to be doing this? It takes off the pressure to seek perfection or seek to be a certain way. You are just seeking anything, and becoming anything that speaks to you. So, all you need to do is resonate on the frequency natural to you. Honour the call and see it through. And you will find the kind of people, communities and listeners seeking you.

Embrace the weirdness that makes you, you. Because that quirky passion you hold might be the perfect missing piece for someone else’s dream. Keep searching, keep walking, and keep putting your unique frequency out there. The universe is listening, and it’s sending its own dreamers your way, waiting to be found by the light you shine. And, the path to your desires might not be a straight line so embrace the detours and unexpected turns, because they might lead you to something even more fulfilling.

The world needs your unique blend of humour, creativity, and passion. It’s when you shine your light brightest that others who resonate with your frequency can find you.

Use your imagination and conceive of the fact that there are people who actually really want you and are counting on you to become your fullest you. Because your dream would unlock theirs.

What you seek is seeking you

What you desire is desiring you

What you are dreaming is dreaming you

Tap into that energy.

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